Sew and Sew Thursday, Aug 6 2009 

     It started out well enough.  A new friend with a new home needed new curtains.  Upon learning I could sew and, bless her, knowing my worklessness of the moment asked me to sew her curtains for a fair price.  Excellent!

     The material came in, measurements were taken, style and ideas reviewed.  With a bolt of heavy material in the back of the little Scion my sewing machine that has been  hither and yon since it’s purchase when #2 was a mere babe was retrieved from the storage unit. 

     This is where the mechanical difficulties begin.  Somewhere between the last use at Lee’s house, it’s storage in the attic there, it’s storage in the under-stairs closet at the apartment in Pasadena and eventual resting place in my half/life storage unit in Spring – the machine has not one thing wrong, but a few things wrong.  Accustomed to fixing it myself, this was beyond me.  Delay #1.

     Ah!  but the gift of my sister’s sewing machine was a boon not to be dismissed even though her husband said it had recently been repaired and declared to be on it’s last rung!  But . . . the cord is missing.  Backup plan foiled.  Delay #2.

    Necessary family travel, personal work and etc. betwixt all this.  Delay #3. 

    My good friend, Karen, used to drag her portable sewing machine to church for costume, drape and etc. making.  Contacting her and requesting the loan proved fruitful.  With a machine in hand and Room Mate #2 out of town with his dogs, I cleaned the floors and surfaces, cut the material to 118″ lengths and noticed toward the end of the bolt a flaw in the fabric.  Two threads missed and skipped through the warp leaving loops of thread large enough to notice and break the smoothness of the jacquard weave.  Nothing to do but pull out a tapestry needle (yes, there are different sorts of needles!) and tuck each errant thread to what would be the window side of the curtain.  That done, it was time to sew. 

   After a day of fiddling with the loaned machine scraps to sew upon I became accustomed to it and began work on the curtains.  Set up on the kitchen table I got one panel of six accomplished.  But Room Mate #2 did not like the spread and mess there.  So all got packed up and put away while guest were about and more family travel was accomplished.  Delay #4.

     Room Mate #2 hasno plans to be away for any length of time.  Determined to finish and relegated to my own room, the bedside table has been employed and sewing machine set thereon.  The setup works almost perfectly while a few storage crates hold my light, book and alarm clock.  The corner of my bed now becomes the tool stash for all the things needed while working on the project. 

Start sewing and the stitches start to fail!  Settings were the same and the unit had been carefully stowed in my room.  Time to remove the miss-stitches.  The material’s tight jacquard weave along with a near perfect match of thread to it’s color required removing the stitch to be done with great care.  Then repairing the errant machine took some time and thought.  But eventually I got the right screws, tension, knobs turned to make a solid stitch without errors.  I am glad.  Otherwise, using the money made from these curtains to repair the loaned machine would have been necessary.  Always return things in better form than you got them!  Yes, I live by what I taught my daughters.

If all goes well, by tomorrow afternoon the curtains shall be finished and ready for the grommets.  I am looking forward to completing this task.  Oddly enough that it has gone on so long, I have enjoyed it immensely. 

I remember my sister bemoaning once about sewing, “I so easily forget that only 10% is done on the machine, the rest is all handwork and patience!” 

A good thought Wednesday, Aug 5 2009 

 

An unhurried sense of time is in itself a form of wealth.

     -Bonnie Friedman, author (b. 1958)

More Travel – West Texas Revisited Friday, Jul 31 2009 

Last Friday, the weekend after the trip to Louisiana, MH2 had some vacation and invited me to join him to visit West Texas again.  Traveling north 2 hours we picked up his granddaughter, Summer who is aged 9, at his ex-wife’s home 2 hours north of Houston.  A nice visit there.

Then headed to his parent’s home in Mount Calm, another 2 hours, so they can see Summer and he took a nap getting ready for the night drive.  Lots of family lives in the same small town and all came by.  Adults, children, babies, a wonderful visit.  About 9:00PM we piled back into the truck and headed west. 

A beautiful night drive but alas, around 4:00 AM MH2 was sleepy so we stopped at a rest area and snoozed.  That did the trick.  At 6:00 PM we headed onward and arrived in Fort Stockton near 9:00 AM.  10 hours drive time, not bad time!

But Fort Stockton was just the first stop that morning for Summer’s Dad works there.  He lives with his wife, bonus daughter and the new baby in Alpine 100 miles away. Another 2 hours drive to get there.  Delivering the futon we carried to their apartment we checked into a hotel and everyone showered for it had been over 24 hours since our last one!  Then a solid nap!  AHHHH. 

Dinner with the family and Summer sticking with them for the night, we retired early very exhausted. 

View from the top

View from the top

Sunday dawned a beautiful day.  We picked up Summer and her Dad and spent a morning geocaching all the way to Fort Davis, back down to Marfa, then back east to Alpine.  We found every cache we looked for.  This was a first.  Summer and her Dad were great at this.  Summer is a bit leery of heights, snakes, crawlies, grass, and just about everything.  Yet with encouragement we managed to get her to climb rocks and hunt caches.  The last cache was on top the Sul Ross University Mountain, the one that has the SR painted on the rocks it near the top.  Cache found which had a Geo-coin (that moves from place to place) we signed the log and trekked back down.  The bottle of water I had in my sack came in especially handy in this desert region.  One hike was enough.  Hot, dry, sweaty it was time for a shower!  A night of pizza, visiting with MH2’s grandkids, son and daughter-in-law finished up a great day.

Monday’s ride home was a straight shot to Houston with four Geocache sites to break up the 10 hour drive.  Summer would say with grandad for the week.  A wonderful trip.

All My Children Wednesday, Jul 22 2009 

My daughters and I had been planning for months to attend my nieces engagement party!  #2 arrived with her fiance Thursday night.  #1 arrived at noon Friday.  After a bit of sorting we left Spring, Texas and headed east for Baton Rouge, Louisiana.  Have patience with me, dear audience, for I shall call them “my children” for this post though one and all are adults in their own right.  This is the last chance I may have to gather my children for quite some time.

The trip there was nice.  Fiance’ slept most of the way having pulled an all nighter to get a university paper submitted.  #2 and I chatted most all the way about everything and nothing in particular.  #1 and I phoned often enough to keep updated.Daughters being funny

Stopping at Mulate’s in Breaux Bridge, Louisiana for dinner (of which I have written about before).  Honestly, the duck was dry and food was okay, but the atmosphere was still fantastic.  The zydeco band played, old and young couples danced.  One couple seemed to float across the floor.  Fed and happy, we left for the last leg of the trip just as the sun was going down.

The bridge across the Mississippi River always makes me smile.  I told the children about when it was being built we would ride up to the top and coast down to the west side on our bicycles.  The exits immediately on the west side make some interesting curves making it fun.  Thirty-some-odd years later the “New Mississippi River Bridge” is in full use with lights along the top beams.  On the left you can see the “New State Capitol” without much effort.  On the right you get a glimpse of LSU amongst all the trees that lavish the landscape there.  Combined with the Muddy Mississip underneath it is old familiar sights to me that sing in my heart that I am home.  We crossed that bridge four times on this trip for my true hometown is Port Allen on the west bank of the river.

#2 & F - LifeIsGoodWe were all weary and made short work of taking out computers, books and gameboys to settle in at the hotel for the night.  Money being tight the four of us shared a hotel room to good advantage. Two beds and a pull out couch accomodated all comfortably. Cannot help but feel it added to the closeness I and my children shared all weekend. 

Coffee Call BreakfastIs there any other way to spend a Saturday than to sleep late?  Absolutely not!  Fiance asked what the plans for the day were.  When travel is on my schedule the itinerary is kept light.  Not one to rush hither and yon to exhaustion, this is a vacation!  Time to take it easy!  he seemed relieved to hear my answer of, “Food, a few geocaches, back to rest and ready for the party, then to the party between 7 and 7:30.” 

The first order of business was breakfast.  #1 and #2 both wished for Coffee Call (which I have written about before) beniets and cafe’a'lait.  With a warning not to wear black it was F’s first time to have beniets!  Though she normally eats extremely light, #2 insisted on an order for herself.  (Now there are two foods I know she will eat her weight in given the chance, beniets and a well cooked steak.)  Powdered sugar everywhere we enjoyed the morning breakfast together. 

Where is that cache?Then we put in the coordinates for the geocache that seemed to be close by.  We found the site but realized later the coordinates were wrong.  Finally giving up, we headed to the next site.  What a very deviously clever hide!  #2 & F swung on the swings to celebrate!  A total of four caches were found, #1 is hooked and the other two were thrilled with the game.  They were all good at this as well! After finding the final one that was printed for Baton Rouge we rode around the lake and Lo! a snowcone stand!  What a better way to celebrate! SnowCones!

 

It was during the geocaching in the midst of the city it began to dawn on my children how lush Baton Rouge is. Stately oaks, green everywhere, air is thick and moist, the smells are rich and soothing. It is simply a beautiful city even in the areas where poorer folks reside.  Taking the back roads we drove around the Louisiana State University Campus and stopped to see the new environment built for the mascot, Mike V.  Then we headed back to the hotel to rest, shower and dress for the evening’s festivities.

The CoupleThe party was in my home town, yes, across the river.  Done as a Celtic Pub theme the whole evening was a complete blast.  We all got to see my Mother, Grammy, Brothers, Brother-in-law and the bevy of nieces & nephews along with family friends I grew up with.  At the end of the night with few folks left about my Sister-In-Law, the bride to be and #1 taught daughter #2 how to line dance!  Midnight, it was time to go.

The funniest thing I remember needs a bit of explaination.  The moist, green, pollen laiden are of Baton Rouge was always a bain for me as a child.  Sinus infections galore.  This trip swiftly brought those symptoms back to the fore.  Breathing becomes difficult.  #2 being a light sleeper had the ill luck of being my sleeping partner.  At 3:00 AM I wake sleepy eyed to find her angelic face framed by the soft halo of her hair and a gentle “Mom?”   Knowing immediately what was the matter I turned on my side and all went back to sleep with nothing more than the AC unit for noise.  Wish a picture of that angelic face was available though.  Snoring?  Me?  NO!  I was just breathing loud.  Honestly!  (Note to self, bring breathe-right strips next trip to Louisiana.)

Did you know Sunday is a good sleep late day (if you can manage it), too?!  Well, it IS!  Not as late as Saturday but good nonetheless.  Here is where my children began to go their separate ways.  #1 stayed in town an extra day to visit family from her father’s side.  #2, F and I did Starbucks drive-through for breakfast and headed down the road.  Geocaching four more sites heading back to Texas, the last find eluded us. 

Wonderful conversations again.  The radio had not been turned on even once during the trip!  Arrived in Houston before the sun went down and kissed #2 and F goodbye as they headed the final three hours back to university. 

Wonderful as it was to be home, this was a weekend with my children I shall long remember fondly.

I can, I will, I should … Thursday, Jul 9 2009 

I can’t…
Eat liver, Yuck!
Express my feelings verbally
Cook gumbo
Resist checking daily to see how many have read this blog
Grasp sarcasm easily
Abide phony folks (just be yourself for Christ’s sake!)
Remember details

I can..
Turn off my cell phone for a day without panic
Speak in public
Tell you which way north
Remember how I felt emotionally
Iron clothing well
Read for a whole day
Be patient with people

I won’t…
Lie to you, or myself!
Be as gullible as in the past
Give up on love
Stop singing along with the musical I am watching
Try to be the center of attention
Be so critical and hard on myself (past is past.  meh.)
Have any more children
Tolerate snide remarks

I will…
Be loyal
Be respectful and polite (even if you are being a jerk)
Crave unique items
Swear when really pissed off
Choose to be happy
Reduce my debt load
Wear a skirt with style and ease

I shouldn’t…
Feel bad about not playing my game online
Send emails without using spell check
Pretend everything is alright when it isn’t
Feel guilty that I am enjoying life
Let pain get in the way of living!
Miss my daughters so much

I should…
Write more
Be proud of my accomplishments
Work out more often
Write to more people the old fashioned way
Laugh alot
Call you on thinly veiled derogatory statements
Give thanks continually

Inspired by this

July 4th Weekend 2009 Monday, Jul 6 2009 

It started with my friend’s funeral on Thursday. 

Thankfully, Friday my brother-in-law had invited me to join him, my nephew and the nephew’s companion on Lake Conroe for the day leading into the evening to watch fireworks.   It was a wonderful day.  Brother-in-law was the perfect host.  Flying Tiger? or Shark?  His boat was the perfect chariot for the hot hot summer day.   Plenty of sun without being burned, great music, setting in at restaurant docks for lunch and dinner, then anchored on the lake to watch the fireworks display.  The company made all the difference ending in a fantastic evening.  Taking the scenic route home I was there, showered and tucked in bed before midnight.

Saturday the 4th dawned to find me lazing in bed as much as RudyDog would allow.  Still hot hot and hot during the day most times topping out at 10 degrees F between 1:30 PM and 3:30 PM.  Did some things about the house to clean up then was invited to the neighbors for bbq chicken.  After eating we played a dominoes game called Train which was uproariously fun!  I had a blast laughing and giggling while, despite the ban on fireworks in the county, the pop and boom of personal fireworks went on all around us. 

Sunday dawned hot and beautiful.  MH2 put me on the back of his bike, we ate breakfast at a nice little diner that is decorated all in train momentoes, then took a short 160 mile ride through the National Forest north of where he lives.  It was HOT.  Drink lots of water.  Thank goodness I had my new summer jacket that was mostly mesh once the liners are taken out.  Home about 2PM, MH2 had to go pack for another out of town work trip.  I took a cool shower then fell asleep. 

So the annual pilgrimage to The Hill for the Houston Symphony July 4th and Fireworks ended this year.  I will likely go again in years with milder days.

Today work started on #1’s birthday present. Refinishing a bed I traded Dl for that is the style she favors.  As the day cooled off to 97 degrees and cloudy, shorts and short sleeves found me outside with the sander. Oh my, yes, I wore a dust mask over my nose and mouth but that did little to help the sweat pouring off my face and my glasses getting covered in varnish dust.  Much of the detail and corners of the headboard will need to be finished out with a Drimel and small sanding pads.  However, the progress done today is very satisfying. 

Tomorrow I have lunch with my good friend, Karen.  Bless her soul, she is going to let me borrow her sewing machine for mine is buggered. With that sewing machine I can continue to work on the curtains I am being paid to make.  

Between the job hunt, the bed refinishing project and sewing curtains there is ample to keep busy with.  I am so glad that this last weekend, despite Dl’s funeral, was as wonderful as it was.    I’ll miss him.

Thought for a lifetime Saturday, Jul 4 2009 

 

“There is a way to look at the past. Don’t hide from it. It will not catch you if you don’t repeat it.”

Pearl Bailey, American singer and actress (1918-1990).

Back roads Thursday, Jul 2 2009 

I love back roads!  This penchant usually drives my passengers crazy.  So when going on one of my discovery drives it is usually solo.

     Houston is where I call home for the 23 years with one small stint in Seattle.  It was not long after arrival the realization hit about this large city, most all of the suburban housewives and husbands knew little or nothing about getting around!  Houston is spread out with major highways, byways, etc looking like a wagon wheel with Downtown being the hub.  Not long ago when asked about Houston, an intern where I worked answered, “It is just a slab of cement.”

     But it is NOT!  Oh sure, if you stay on the major highways it seems all cement, car dealerships and malls.  Yet just a few 100 feet from all that you will alternately run into subdivisions of housing, golf courses, trailer parks, arboretums, acres of pasture with cows and/or horses next to ritzy hotels and high dollar living abodes, streams and shopping centers.   If the interstate is jammed I take back roads all about this city.  I have been called ‘daring’ but I rather think of it as ‘adventurous’!

    Then there are the trips away from the city.  If time is an issue, I take the highways.  Even then, given a few minutes of spare time will find this adventurer pulling into towns a scant 5 miles off the cement/asphalt slabs for lunch or breaks.  This has habit has had lucky finds such as festivals at churches, fund raisers serving local cooked food and once a local parade complete with red wagons decorated, children within waving flags and parent pulling!  Of course the local horse patrol came last.  Even without such lucky finds the local fooderies can be alternately fantabulous or give one sever digestive distress.  Either way, it is all in the adventure! 

    Lately the roads taken both by car or backseat on my friend’s motorcycle when traveling are back roads!  The air is not stifling as the trees line the roads, bogs hosting wildlife, sniffles from pollens, a stop to feel the soil, look at local grasses and even at time pick a few seeds from wildflowers which brings on other adventures in gardening, but that is a story for another time!  The new hobby of Geocaching helps as well.  The task of the find forces someone out of their car and to be aware of their surroundings.  Hence, my car now always has plastic bags for trash pickup, cotton gloves, a flashlight and soon will host a utility knife to assist in this hobby. 

     I encourage everyone to take the adventure of rolling down your windows, turn off the radio, use your senses to feel an area.  Adventure is not synonymous with the word danger.  Travel to enjoy the trip!  As the plaque on my headboard says:

The journey is the destination!

Job Search #9 Tuesday, Jun 30 2009 

 

Jewels says:    how are you?
 
 Raen says:    Really good. Right now looking through my job search agent e-mails for jobs to apply for. 

 

Jewels says:    ooh ooh! anything interesting so far?

Raen says:    Got a reply from a job I applied to June 8th wanting to know what were my salary requirements. I’ll call that Second Base!
Let’s see if i can hit a home run! 
 

 Jewels says:    *takes her sport announcer voice*
And here we have player number one, Jeannette, on second base.
So far this year, she’s been known to be actively poking different employers, only to be said no , , , but we know she won’t take no for an answer and so she’ll find some place who’ll truly appreciate her skills and personality.
Second base so far, waiting for a reply from a new employer. Will she hit the ball home?  That’s what we’ll know during the next inning! 

 Raen says:  *begins singing*
^ Take me out to the ball game! Take me out to the . . .^
 
 LOL!  Litterally!

 

< So, dear readers, with friends like this keeping me smiling, how could I NOT be having fantastic days? >

“Where is the little girl I . . . “ Thursday, Jun 25 2009 

In a few short days my youngest, often refered to here as #2 or Mo, will turn 21 years of age.  The age of adulthood and ability to purchase alcohol.  A right of passage.  Some folks say the time goes so swiftly.  I have not found it so.  However the time in my life with my daughters has been good. 

She, her fiance, her sister whom I call #1 and I will gather for a dinner on Friday.  If I cook or we go out will be her call.  Purchased her a small present certain she will be thrilled with it.  A very lucky find!

A very lucky mother to have two successful daughters!

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